Little Deep Thoughts

There are times when we start comparing ourselves with others. Comparing ourselves with others brings us disappointments and break downs. We feel we aren't good enough for ourselves. We feel ugly, humiliated and what not. Why do we have to always compare ourselves with others? Why don't we Compare Ourselves with the Old Us?  Have you ever thought about comparing yourself with the old you? It's okay, at times we do face disappointments and break down. At times, we don't get what we want. Things might not always go the way we want. But it's okay and you need to know that.  We need to learn to compare ourselves with the old us. You need to see your own progress with the old you. You need to be a New You from the Old You. Don't think about what others are doing because they are growing for themselves. You need to grow for yourself and learn to check your own steps from the old you. It's fine even if it is the smallest change, but there is a chan...

Drive away from your mind all unnecessary, useless and negative thoughts. Useless thoughts impede your spiritual growth; obnoxious thoughts are stumbling blocks to your spiritual advancement. You are away from God when you are entertaining useless thoughts. Entertain only thoughts that are helpful and useful. Do not allow the mind to run into the old grooves and to have its own ways and habits. Be on the careful watch. Thoughts of sin haunts the mind of some people. One person always thinks, "I have committed a very heinous sin. I do not know what to do." Again and again, this one idea haunts his mind. This is a bad habit. These people do not know how to divert their minds. They become pray to these 'haunting thoughts'. Virtue and sin are relative terms. They are creations of the mind. Sin is nothing but a mistake. Remembering God's name, charity and fasting will destroy at one any amount of sin. You must eradicate through introspection all sorts of mean thou...

Because our attitudes and behaviours flow out of our paradigms, if we use our self-awareness to examine them, we can often see in them the nature of our underlying maps. Our language, for example, is a very real indicator of the degree to which we see ourselves as proactive people. The language of reactive people absolves them of responsibility. " That's me. That's just the way I am." I am determined. There's nothing I can do about it. " He makes me so mad !" I'm not responsible. My emotional life is governed by something outside my control.  " I can't do that. I just don't have the time." Something outside me --- limited time --- is controlling me. That language comes from a basic paradigm of determinism. And the whole spirit of it is the transfer of responsibility.  I am not responsible, not able to choose my response.  REACTIVE LANGUAGE PROACTIVE LANGUAGE 1.    There’s nothing I can do. Let’s ...

It was my intention, my commitment, that even if a door was closed I would bang on it, I would break the door, or I would get in through the window. There was no way that I would not make that happen. You automatically commit to something if you really want it enough. You don't even have to think about it, you just jump right into it. If there's a movie you're desperate to see, it takes no effort for you to commit to go to a theatre and see it. When you fall head over heels in love, you can't stop yourself from commitment to see the other person. The one thing about the activities we pursue on the ocean is they're very committed. You don't kind of ride a wave; you either ride it or you don't. Every wave and every ride is a belief and commitment. You're taking that leap. There's something about deciding that whatever you have at the moment is enough to do whatever it is you need to do. If you always think you're missing one more thing, if y...

If you are happy in life right now, it's not because everything about your life is necessarily going right, but because a relationship that really matters to you is going great. If you are unhappy in life right now, it's not because everything about your life is going wrong, but because a relationship that really matters to you the most is not going great. Relationships are like seeds. They have to be nurtured and developed. Expectations are like weeds. They grow on their own accord. When enough investment goes into building a relationship, the expectations in that relationship can be managed. When a relationship is left neglected, then the expectations in that relationship shake the very roots of the relationship. In a relationship where there is a substantial emotional reserve, mistakes will be tolerated and forgiven, the meaning will be understood even when communication is inadequate, and your intentions will be appreciated even if you fall short in your actions. ...

There is this guy, Who makes me feel so comfortable around him. The way he looks at me gets me butterflies in my tummy. His smile. His eyes. His style. Just so perfect and addictive. It's like there is no one when he is next to me. The way he cares for me. The way he loves me. The way he protects me. It's just 💓... He has made me believe in love. The way he holds my hand. The way he looks into my eyes. The way he solves any knot. Its just 💘... This guy is just incredible. He is the one. I'm... I'm just running out of words. Words can never describe him. I would just want him forever. Just Him 💞

Every night before you fall asleep, give heartfelt thanks for the wonderful day you just had (no matter what kind of day you had). Think about the next day, And intend that it is going to be wonderful. Intend that it is going to be the best day of your life. Intend that it is going to be filled with love and joy. Intend that all good is coming to you and everything is going to flow perfectly. Then when you wake in the morning, Before you get out of bed, Again declare your intentions for the day and give deep thanks as though you have received them all. As you do this, You will begin to create your life deliberately, And you will experience the power that is within you to create the life you want.

Everything is beautiful around you. You are happy in your life. You are happy with that one special person in your life who means everything to you. But one day everything is changed. Nothing seems like before. Nothing isn't the same. All misunderstanding, All fights, Have screwed it up. And one fine day, Everything comes to an end. You are blank and don't even know what to do. You are still waiting for that one special person to come back to you and say, "I LOVE YOU,  YOU MEAN EVERYTHING TO ME'' BUT, You are left all alone.

You deserve to move on. You deserve to let go and uncork yourself from the past. You deserve to step forward into new possibilities and opportunities. You deserve to be happy. You deserve closure. You deserve to be with someone who fights for you and never thinks about giving up on you. You deserve someone who believes in you. You deserve someone who patronize you. You deserve someone who shows up. You deserve someone who chooses you, everyday and every time. You deserve someone who makes your heart dance and sets your soul free. You deserve someone who pieces you back together. You deserve peace, within yourself. You deserve to have all the things your heart beats for. You deserve to be loved. You deserve everything. It's time to believe that.

You stay attached to the wrong person when you wait for them to change. They won't change for you, they can only change for themselves. You stay attached to the wrong person when you limit yourself to one place. The world is huge, but often, we limit ourselves to the city we live in or our circle of friends and thats how we end up exaggerating our feelings towards someone. You stay attached to the wrong person when you try to convince yourself that they're right for you. You stay attached to the wrong person when you keep following their updates and their news, when you keep looking at their pictures and seeing how much fun they're having without you. You stay attached to the wrong person when they change everything you knew about love and you still accept it. 

Life is presenting every person and circumstance to you so you can choose what you love and what you don't love. When you react to anything, you are reacting with your feelings, and as you do, you are choosing it! Your reaction, whether good or bad, sticks it to you, and in effect, you are saying you want more of it! And so it's important to watch how you react in your relationships, because whether you react with good or bad feelings, they're the feelings you're giving, and you will receive more of the same circumstances to make you feel that way.

We all know love is a aesthetic word. Love can never have a specific vignette. Love can be towards anything like family , children , spouse , friends , pets , books etc .. But the most important is to love yourself first. Only when you love yourself you will extrapolate the meaning of love. Don't care what people deem about you. They have the habit of talking behind us. They can not stand a better person and thats the reason they are talking behind us. Let anyone make fun of you but never let them control you. You don't need to prove anyone who you are. You are the best 💗 Just keep loving yourself more and more each day 💘 And one day love will find its way back to you.

To use love as the ultimate power in your life , you must love like you have never loved before.   Fall in love with life!   See only love , hear only love , speak only love , and feel love with all your heart.  There is no limit , no ceiling , to the moment of love you can feel , and it is all inside you !  You are made of love.  

Words are very powerful, so when you complain about any person you actually harm your life. It is your life that will suffer. Whatever you think or say about another person, you bring to you. This is the very reason why greatest minds and teachers of the world have told us to be grateful. They knew that for you to receive more in your life, for your life to magically increase, you have to be grateful for others just as they are. What if every person close to you said, " I love you - just the way you are ," how would you feel?

Think about what you love. Talk about what you love. Do what you love to do.  Because when you're doing all of these things, you are feeling love. Talk about the things you love about your home, your family, your spouse and children. Talk about the things you love about your friends. Tell them what you love about them. Talk about the things you touch, smell, and taste that you love. Tell the law of attraction what you love everyday by singling out the things you love and feeling them. Just think about how much love you can give in one day by feeling the things you love.

You never know what’s gonna happen next . Make sure you enjoy every single moment in your life. Never regret anything just take it as a lesson in your life. Every day we learn something new , make mistakes and it’s all okay. Just remember to always keep loving your self.

To make myself feel happy and positive , I first have to do something I love and build a sense of satisfaction within myself . So everyday I go surfing , because I know that makes me feel very happy and satisfied.