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What you don't use, you lose.

I have seen people, who were extraordinary public speakers, struggle to stamp the same mark on the dais a few years later, for they've lost touch with public speaking. I have seen well-educated women, who after having become homemakers confined themselves to the four walls, struggle with their fluency in communication. I have seen outstanding singers unable to achieve the level of performance they are capable of, for they have stopped practicing. Why is that I am not able to exert my left hand as much as my right hand ? Simple, I have put my right hand to greater use than my left hand. You develop the muscles you use and lose the ones you don't use. Most cardiac problems are the result and effect of the heart not being made to work to its maximum capacity. The human body is designed to wear out over a lifetime, but we shrink this lifetime by allowing the body to rust. If you don't use, you lose it. Unused money devalues. Unused talent diminishes. Unused potential dec...

A Relationship That Matters To You The Most....

If you are happy in life right now, it's not because everything about your life is necessarily going right, but because a relationship that really matters to you is going great. If you are unhappy in life right now, it's not because everything about your life is going wrong, but because a relationship that really matters to you the most is not going great. Relationships are like seeds. They have to be nurtured and developed. Expectations are like weeds. They grow on their own accord. When enough investment goes into building a relationship, the expectations in that relationship can be managed. When a relationship is left neglected, then the expectations in that relationship shake the very roots of the relationship. In a relationship where there is a substantial emotional reserve, mistakes will be tolerated and forgiven, the meaning will be understood even when communication is inadequate, and your intentions will be appreciated even if you fall short in your actions. ...