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The Silent Treatment Rarely Works

There are times when someone wants to talk and you give them the cold shoulder. You are there for that person in their bad times as well as good times. You make sure they are doing good and things are fine with them. But the longer this goes on, the more it exacerbates the problem. And then, there are times when you deliberately avoid talking to someone, but they don't even notice. They don't notice that you have distanced yourself from everyone, they don't realize that you are quiet (which you usually aren’t), they assume that things are fine with you, but they aren’t.  Ultimately you are the only one who suffers. For your own sake, start talking. Don’t keep things inside you. Talk to your family or friends, talk to someone with whom you are comfortable, but start talking. Keeping things inside you will make you suffer a lot. Don't expect people to understand what’s going on with you, it's better to talk and let them know how you are feeling. Only when you talk, s...

Deal with Your Fears

If you become a passive self-observant and observe yourself and your actions intently for a day or two, you will realise that the most dominant feelings of your daily existence is fear. Fear limits and shapes our actions in myriad ways. The way we dress, the way we communicate with the world in general consciously or unconsciously, the way we establish relationships with people and things, the way we take different decisions, accumulate things or form opinions or stand points, are influenced substantially, if not completely, by our self preservation instinct, which in simple term means our concern for survival. All our efforts in this world are guided by this singular most concern, which has many other guises, our concern for approval, our concern for acceptance, our concern for having the best of everything. It is this concern, which drives us to have more and more of what we already have, in the anxiety that what we have may not be sufficient enough to protect us from scarcity whe...

One-Man Power

Every successful concern is the result of a One-Man Power. Cooperation, technically, is an iridescent dream—things cooperate because the man makes them. He cements them by his will. But find this Man, and get his confidence, and his weary eyes will look into yours and the cry of his heart shall echo in your ears. "O, for some one to help me bear this burden!" Then he will tell you of his endless search for Ability, and of his continual disappointments and thwarting in trying to get some one to help himself by helping him. Ability is the one crying need of the hour. The banks are bulging with money, and everywhere are men looking for work. The harvest is ripe. But the Ability to captain the unemployed and utilise the capital, is lacking—sadly lacking. In every city there are many five- and ten-thousand-dollar-a-year positions to be filled, but the only applicants are men who want jobs at fifteen dollars a week. Your man of Ability has a place already. Yes, Ability is a ...

Time and Chance

As the subject is somewhat complex, I will have to explain it to you. The first point is that there is not very much difference in the intelligence of people after all. The great man is not so great as folks think, and the dull man is not quite so stupid as he seems. The difference in our estimates of men lies in the fact that one individual is able to get his goods into the show-window, and the other is not aware that he has any show-window or any goods. "The soul knows all things, and knowledge is only a remembering," says  Emerson. This seems a very broad statement; and yet the fact remains that the vast majority of men know a thousand times as much as they are aware of. Far down in the silent depths of subconsciousness lie myriads of truths, each awaiting a time when its owner shall call it forth. To utilise these stored-up thoughts, you must express them to others; and to be able to express them well your soul has to soar into this subconscious realm where ...

Magnetic Relaxation

Unlike sleeping, magnetic relaxation requires you to be physically at rest but subconsciously alert. When your conscious mind is relaxed; the positive suggestions seep into your subconscious. To achieve maximum benefit from relaxation: Sit in a comfortable chair or lie down to a bed. - Let go of all the tensions by repeating to yourself: "I can now relax comfortably. I can now relax my body. I can now relax my mind. Easily, quickly and positively. Now I can enjoy the state of alert relaxation peacefully." - Let a feeling of soothing comfort take over. - Let go of yourself totally. Feel a universal healing energy surrounding you and getting absorbed into your body and mind. - Feel a cool breeze around your body. Visualise a white sparkling light through your head down your body and seeping deep within you. - Think that soothing and healing forces are vibrating within and radiating from you. - Maintain a positive and peaceful state of mind during the session. Also, ta...

This Guy 💕

There is this guy, Who makes me feel so comfortable around him. The way he looks at me gets me butterflies in my tummy. His smile. His eyes. His style. Just so perfect and addictive. It's like there is no one when he is next to me. The way he cares for me. The way he loves me. The way he protects me. It's just 💓... He has made me believe in love. The way he holds my hand. The way he looks into my eyes. The way he solves any knot. Its just 💘... This guy is just incredible. He is the one. I'm... I'm just running out of words. Words can never describe him. I would just want him forever. Just Him 💞