Little Deep Thoughts

Negative thinking is something we all do. The difference between the person who is primarily optimistic and the person who is primarily pessimistic is that the optimist learns to become a good debater. Once you become thoroughly aware of the effectiveness of optimism in your life, you can learn to debate your own pessimistic thoughts.   The most thorough and useful study I’ve ever seen on how to do this is contained in Dr.Martin Seligman’s classic work, Learned Optimism . The studies done by Seligman demonstrate two very profound revelations: 1) optimism is more effective than pessimism, and 2) optimism can be learned. If you are now skeptical about your power to debate your own pessimistic thoughts, keep in mind that most of us are already great debaters. If somebody comes in and takes one side of an argument, we can usually take the other side and make a case, no matter which side the first person took. Debate teams have to learn to do this. Team members never know ...

Most people do not see themselves as being creative, but we all are. Most people say, “My sister’s creative, she paints,” or “My father’s creative, he sings and writes music.” We miss the point that we are all creative. One of the reasons we don’t see ourselves that way is that we normally associate being creative with being original . But in reality, creativity has nothing to do with originality- it has everything to do with being unexpected . You don’t have to be original to be creative. In fact, it sometimes helps to realize that no one is original. If you believe you were created in the image of your Creator, then you must therefore, be creative. Then, if you’re willing to see yourself as creative, you can begin to cultivate it in everything you do. You can start coming up with all kinds of unexpected solutions to the challenges that life throws at you. 

We all have met many people in our life . Everyone were nonidentical. Everyone taught us different lessons in our life . Some people stayed and some people walked away . But their lessons dwelled with us . People who stayed with us , gave us their blessings and support. We know everyone comes in our life for a reason . Whether to teach us or support us . Whether to make us strong or weak . It depends on how we take it . Whether as a lesson or a blessing .

You never know what’s gonna happen next . Make sure you enjoy every single moment in your life. Never regret anything just take it as a lesson in your life. Every day we learn something new , make mistakes and it’s all okay. Just remember to always keep loving your self.